I’ve been dialoguing about the explosion of interest in Feminine leadership with the wise women that I know.
We agree that women are awakening and claiming power – spiritual, sexual, financial and heartfelt, hard earned wisdom.
But is female leadership the same as Feminine leadership?
I personally think there is a distinction to be made.
As interest in this topic increases more people use the terms ‘feminine leadership’ and ‘feminine power’ in their blogs and business offerings. The distinction between female, relating to gender, and Feminine, which is non gender specific, becomes important.
A respected leader, whether male or female, is likely to be able to harness both Masculine and Feminine qualities as appropriate to a situation.
Having said that, male and female bodies and brains are wired differently. It does make sense that women, by and large, will have greater access to certain qualities and men to others. But, women must take more than their gender into leadership positions.
Sadly, we are most familiar with stories of abuse of power in leadership. Female leaders are not immune.
My personal view is that a call for Feminine leadership is a response to abuses of power. For me, Feminine leadership implies a change to the patriarchal ‘power over’ paradigm.
Feminine leadership might be framed around an honouring of Feminine values, which include the honouring of women, the arts, the earth and all forms of life on it.
The importance of inner work for leaders is a newly emerging theme. The approach, which might emerge, to the benefit of both women and men, is neither patriarchal ego/male oriented nor matriarchal ego/female oriented.
Initiations to the Feminine are not new – neither for women nor for men.
Joseph Campbell identified ‘The Meeting with the Goddess’ as a key transformational stage on his model of the human journey, in his book The Hero with a Thousand Faces, published in 1949.
Often, Hero’s Journey is interpreted as being a man’s journey. But, there is another interpretation that deserves consideration. The Hero is a metaphorical term. When the Hero meets the goddess, he is changed in some way. He surrenders, stops fighting and starts to serve and support her.
There is deep longing in both women and men to meet the Feminine.
Food for thought:
- ‘The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet.’ Mohadesa Najumi
- The Feminine is the transformational aspect of Consciousness, according to tantric wisdom.
- It was at the Vancouver Peace Summit, in 2009, that the Dalai Lama made the statement that many women’s initiatives now quote. He gave the opinion that ‘the world will be saved by the Western women.’